2009-03-10 Sex. Change the Rules

Routine and sex are incompatible notions. Not many of us follow stereotypes, which give no possibility to experience new erotic feelings in sexual relationships. Let's try to take a look at our idea regarding this question in different way.

Stereotype. Best sex lasts for hours.

Another angle. Excellent sex may be quick or long – it depends on your desire and mood. No matter how much time you like to spend on sexual marathon, life dictates its rules. That's the reason why couples, overloaded with work, should get rid of the "Saturday night traditional two-hour sex" stereotype, using any opportunity to have sex. If you want to reach quick orgasm, two things are important. Firs of all, allow fancy to play around, and one the process begins, you will be ready! Secondly, don't afraid to do what you need to reach orgasm, for instance, if you feel good being on top, use your hands or sex toys, such as vibrators, dildos and other devices.

Stereotype. He makes the first step.

Another angle. Sometimes you can take the initiative in the most passionate way.

When you become the initiator of sex, complete role changing may add new stimulus to your sex life, according to the sexologists. Sexologists also claim: the initiative from women can help to increase self-confidence not only in bed. Besides, it is so sexy to be a leader in sex.

Stereotype. Fantasies should be a mystery.

Another angle. When you share fantasies with your partner, you become closer to each other.

Some people feel uneasy to share their innermost fantasies, regardless of how close they are, that’s why many sexologist recommend reading erotic literature and watching erotic movie together in the beginning. At first you will share impressions, and then turn to your own fantasies. It's important to understand that fantasies exchange is not their obligatory fulfillment. If you just tell each other about them. It will make you both close to each other.

Stereotype. Sex is coitus.

Another angle. Sex includes everything you get pleasure from – kisses, touches, strokes etc. Don't think that the best orgasm is possible only in the process of sexual intercourse. Try everything you get pleasure of. Foreplay and oral sex are not the only methods!

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