2010-01-20 Male sexual fantasies. Part 3

Quite often the woman's attitude to male fantasy is determined by her age. If you are after 30, it is probably that fantastic story told by your husband about how a group of sexual Amazons makes him everyday satisfy their tribe will lead you to strong excitement. If you are young than such a "crazy" male fantasy will insult you in real earnest: how he dared to think about sexual intercourse with somebody else except you?!

To make his dreams come true?!

As practice shows when man pass from fantasies to deeds, disappointment comes. For example, he managed to persuade you to perform one of his dearest fantasies - he was dreaming to make the acquaintance with a girl that is easy in her morals. You have dressed accordingly (of course you haven't has lingerie on you) and you have played your part excellent in the restaurant. He had to work hard to persuade you to go with you. But at home sex for him appeared to be usual. Nothing new. But the next week you again wished to gladden the darling with playing the part of an expensive prostitute. Man understood that sex doesn't deserve such concern and felt sorry that such idea came in his mind. Of course, he will not tell you the truth because he doesn't want to look like an idiot.

Telling about his fantasies man kills them. In his mind he builds fanciful sexual clutters but as soon as he discloses them everything falls in and he has to build the new ones. No, not because you criticize or put them into life. It is not your fault. They just cannot live in a real world. Fantasies are, as a rule, expression of the forbidden. If man can share taboo with you and even realize it in real life, it stops to be forbidden. Not being excitingly indecent secret in real life anymore such fantasy looses its power to excite automatically. In other cases fantasy’s realization in real life doesn't deprive her of its mental attractiveness but effect of its physical realization is not so bright.

What should you know about his fantasies?

His fantasies are not as beautiful as yours.

In their majority they are not wishes.

Their capability to excite is based on that they have never been realized in life.

They turn into problem only if he is obsessed with them. In his arsenal they are tools of excitement. Don't look for big latent meaning in them.

Don't ask him to bring you in his fantasies world otherwise they will loose their power that leads him to excitement but you will be disappointed.