2010-03-03 Erotic dreams. Part 2

Quite often in the role of erotic partner in such dreams can act not a spouse at all but entirely another person. In realty many women think over this: "Why I have dreamed a colleague of mine, a boss or husband's friend?" And even start to sense some feeling of guilt because of it. But those women that haven't though about other men evidently can be calmed down, because, first of all, dream can as well not mean an erotic act but can express some everyday situation. Secondly, if it does have erotic character, it means that at the moment in the dream takes place physiological sexual excitement and the unconscious starts to look for an object to satisfy this desire. And this object can become any person, for example, whom you saw this afternoon or have spoken with him on the telephone or saw on TV.

And of course, if your partner told you about such dream with another man, don't consider it an indirect "unfaithfulness". Dreaming process and dreaming work are very delicate things that are not always subject to precise understanding and even a little "mysterious", "fantastic" by their nature... That is why it is never known without deep analysis: has the person dreamed of, let us suppose, some concrete partner in dream day and night or subconscious mind completely accidentally has chosen him this partner, or this partner "got in the dream" for some completely not-erotic reasons.

Although, some people all the same think over: "Doesn't erotic dream with another partner mean dissatisfaction in relations with your man (woman)?" Of course, this question doesn't unambiguous answer. On its own it can tell little if not think over its reasons. Dream with another partner can directly tell about dissatisfaction with your man. But, maybe, on the contrary, about that woman cannot reveal in realty, in real relations (is ashamed or afraid of something, doubts). And that is why she surrenders to her dreams completely only in the dream and, naturally, with another man because situation its own for her should be entirely different and object for discovering these desires another.

But everything stated above in a greater degree refers to women...

To be continued...