2010-02-10 Are men afraid of experienced women. Part 1

"Are men afraid of relations with experienced women?" - This question was asked to a man. The answer on this question was positive but with a small reservation "not all and not always". So why women with experience make the sterner half of humanity become alerted and with what are these fears connected? Answers on these complicated questions, read further.

First, we must decide on the notion "experienced woman" itself. Moreover, it is woman, after whose shoulders are some consciously lived years.

Life of a mature woman corresponds with principles elaborated by her. She has met problems on her way not only once and the main is that she is able to solve these problems by herself. It would seem, relations with such partner should bring joy, so why men are afraid of men? She is weaker than I for sure?

Historically in society had formed opinion that namely man is Lord of Creation as he is stronger, cleverer and during entire centuries this fact hasn’t raised doubts.

So, what to put at threat this myth for? It is easier to refuse relations with woman who can disprove this, namely for this reason, if on the man's way is met strong, determined, resolute and masterful woman, than, most likely, it is possible to assume that man will hurry to retreat. As the thought itself about loss of dominating position is unacceptable for man.

Such a woman unlikely will unacceptable her husband.

Agree, in the past woman practically hasn't dared to object man. But what now?

According to statistic, approximately 70% of sterner sex representatives are afraid that female arguments in dispute will appear more convincing and that is why it is not a fact that namely man will gain the upper hand.

What if she leaves me?

One more reason to tell “no” to experienced woman - it is fear to be left. "If former men have got the walking orders, such a fate is also waiting for me", - definitely, exactly so thinks part of sterner sex representatives.

Mature woman is usually self-confident and has right estimation of her actions, what allows herself to determine course of events in her life. That is why she will not take part in boring or bringing disappointment and pain relations. After divorce such women in most cases feel relief but man feels himself castaway.